Sex is for all. Men do it, and so do animals. But with men, it’s even more different when it comes to women. Is this stereotypic? Maybe, but the question remains, what’s the difference between sex drives in men and women. Do men have a higher libido than women, or is it reversed?
This question has been one of the frequently asked questions, especially amongst newly married couples, because most times, you don’t know whom you are dating well until you marry. So, you might be surprised at how much your partner loves sex. According to studies in recent times, men are prone to have stronger and more straightforward sex drives than women. However, when trying to explain the source of libido of both genders, women are much harder to comprehend, hence, less straightforward.
It is no news that women tend to get more emotionally attached; hence they are more sensitive when it comes to matters of the heart. However, this doesn’t make them any less vulnerable when it comes to sex drive than men.
As explained earlier, there are more than one difference between the sex drive in both men and women and here are some of them.
Men think of sex almost always:
Here’s one of the key differences between the sex drive in men. On average, a man will think of sex at least once a day. This statistic is only about one-quarter of women. Thinking about sex results from high libido in men, and some would probably have to consume HD porn videos online to satisfy their urge for sex. However, it should be noted that as both gender age, sexual fantasies reduce, but it’s worth noting that men still tend to think more about sex than women. This research has successfully backed up the popular maxim that says “men are moved by what they see and women by what they hear,”
Men want to have sex always:
Another difference in sex drive between men and women is that men would always want to have sex, if possible, at the very beginning of a relationship and throughout the relationship. This is true across all genders, even in the LGBTQi+ community. Most gays and heterosexuals have sex quite often due to their high libido. So, with high libido comes the urge to have sex, more typically in men than in women. According to research, men tend to consume porn more than women, which has affected the level of masturbation in men and women. When thinking of prostitution, it’s still majorly because men have a somewhat insatiable sex drive, rather than the other way. Women go into prostitution because of money, while men do it because of the high sex drive.
Women last longer when it comes to duration:
Here’s where everything gets a little tricky. As established above, men tend to have more sex than women and have very high sex drives. The only difference here is that they don’t last longer than women regarding the actual sex. It could take about 10 minutes for a man to attain orgasm, and a woman could take hours. While a man has had about four orgasms, women might just have one; most times, they don’t even have none at all. Most ladies could go days of having sex without experiencing an orgasm. This is one of the variations in sex drives between men and women.
Men have more sex; they tend to enjoy it more than women because they can attain orgasm easily. However, it is important to note that women take a longer period and lasts longer in bed. Sex is not a race; neither is it a competition, so be sure you do not compare relationships. Your friends might be having hours and multiple rounds of sex, making their women orgasm easily. If your man isn’t doing this, you can adopt several corrective measures. One of them is by learning from HD porn and masturbating together. This would help your partner understand your body better and how well to please you.
You could also speak to a sex therapist if you feel your partner has an insatiable sex drive. Meeting a therapist will help you understand how you can manage this high libido because most times, it could be as a result of hormonal imbalances or due to the type of food your partner takes. Hence, it is important that you and your partner always talk about issues in your relationships, communicate effectively and make conscious efforts to make one another better.